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Life after marriage...........

Hey Friends writing this blog almost after 10months.......here i am back with bang........


I would be completing 6months of my married life...................
So how is life after marriage??? that's what everybody see on our faces...........


Changes after marriage:


  • Boy becomes a Man & a Women becomes a Girl!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Boy works hard to earn more & girl relaxes as much as she can.
  • Boys favorite past time at home is cooking & girls favorite past time watching television.
  • Boys become soft toys who have to smile at every occasion whereas girls become Army Colonel ruling the home.
  • Boys need permission for spending single penny out of their purse whereas girls have full access to your purse...............
  • Boys friends after marriage hardly any....& girls friends after marriage both her friends & her husband's friends............
  • Boys best holiday's after marriage....when her wife is not at home, Girls best holiday's when she is at partying with her friends...........



Are you mad i didn't said anything like what is written above.........those are not my thoughts..........yeh to Anshu bhaiya ke comments hain..............here comes my personal thoughts:


While every union is unique, there are certain phases that most marriages go through. Each has the potential to either help a couple's relationship grow closer and more solid, or to pull it apart. What's important to keep in mind is that there is no perfect marriage and no relationship without conflict.


The First Year of Marriage begins with a period of excitement. Negative feelings are swept aside by the optimism of both partners as they begin to share a future. These positive feelings help a couple face the often daunting issues of the first year. Money - who handles it and how it's allocated - is a key issue for many couples. Time apart versus time together, division of household responsibilities, even who controls the television remote, are among the issues couples must begin to hammer out. 


In short its sweet lovely 6months which i had spend with my wife & i hope this will continue all through our lives, because hope pe to duniya kayam hai..............hehehehehe.........Don't tell my wife about this blog.......else no dinner for today.............





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