Colors of my life

We are in 21st Century and nearing to 22nd Century but as we are moving quickly from one century to another i guess there is one thing which is diminishing day by day that is patience. I guess everything is going in a speed of 5G, just like internet, we have stopped enjoying the life instead speeding up to the next level of the game called Life. All this is resulting in over expectations in everything, i think expectations are good as far as it under limits. Overexpecations will not only ruin us but also riun our upcoming generations. We need to start teaching the lesson of unforgetable word of patience to upcoming generation to bring peace to their minds. Same lies with us and our families, daily we hear new stories on the newspaper on mass murders and suicides because of certain reasons. This is primarily due to resulting in impatient behaviour, overexpectations of the family from an Individual. We need to learn the old moral stories where it was told that failure is a ste...

This weekend i went to watch shop to mend my couple of old watches and get them back on track with current time. Watch shops are having poor time these days since mobile phones have come or may be you can say, the new era of digitalization had come, even watches are also now e-watches which can track our sleep, our steps, our blood circulations. Even works as assistant to us reminding all important activities which we need to do for the day. I was just talking to this horologist, who was saying old watch manufacturers are out of market and whose ever are left are pretty expensive because they are meant for matching the style and fashion of today. As he repaired my watch and handed over back to me, i told him its showing the date as 9th Jun, whereas it is 8th Jun. The reply which the horologist gave me was awaful - he told me sir, you running out of time, catch it as you had missed a day, Today is 9th Jun'19. While coming back to home i realized the real meaning of the word...

I still recall those childhood days when we were kids with no worries no tensions of the real lives......I wish i can go back to that period which is golden period of our lives. Being a child we all dream about our future about being independent about being flying like a kite.......we feel dependent on teachers, parents for everything we do.......we dream for the day when we can do everything and anything of our own choices....... Now we are adult we are in real lives, most of us married and few of us have even kids as well. The life is completely filled with responsibilities, we are completely independent but does that is what we were looking for.......perhaps not, we are in the situation where people are dependent on us.......Our parents, wife, kids.......we are independent but still dependent on our boundaries.......... Now slowly and steadily your focus would be to earn more to invest for your old age and for the future of your kids.............Focus is all around on how t...

Last Sunday when i was gazing around my balcony, i  was surprise to see little sparrows around an earthen pot which we had kept to feed water to the birds........ It gives me and my wife immense happiness and joyful feeling when we see those birds coming to drink water from that pot. when they drink water from their tiny mandible. So many different birds coming on our balcony includes sparrows, pigeons and parrots. Every bird is so unique in their appearances, most of the birds i saw drinking water were sparrows, different variety of sparrows. They seems so naughty with each other, they come in the groups of two or three not sure weather male or female. Its very easy for them to hang around anywhere on the balcony, at times on telephone wires, at times on the windows at times on the AC cabinet.  For some birds they find their landing difficult on to the balcony due to their weight. I remember last summer a group of pigeons came to drink the water on the pots and it g...

Finally I had found way to write my blog through my tab, it looks as simple as writing through your PC or Laptop.....just downloaded Google blogger... Lets come back to my new blog subject tag Lazy go Crazy...... You know today we see lot of electronic  mechanical devices around us.....we are living in 21st century where modern technology had changed the idea of living..... May be some people may agree or may not agree with my next remarks.... Long back when the human beings came into existence, they changed a lot as compared to other creatures or animals around.....some people say that this was because of sharp brains inside human body...which is very true and scientifically proven..... Do you know how Engineers and engineering came into existence? Being sharpest of all existing creatures, human beings were also among the laziest, they had always looked for the options which are shortest, fastest and easiest of all.....This is where greatest engineers w...

Today i reached home early than routine weekdays and i was feeling little surprised how this had happened...Any  how i am back from office early but now what? I just started recapturing my day starting from when i waked up at 7am in the morning till i go for sleep. 7:00hrs - Wake up 8:30hrs - Breakfast 9:00hrs - Ready to go to office. 10:00hrs-Routine office work 13:30hrs- Lunch 15:00hrs- Tea Time 19:00hrs- Wrapping things up to move home. 20:00hrs - Reach back home 21:00hrs - Dinner 23:00hrs - Go for sleep Most of my weekdays are just like this....no major changes, life has become so stagnant. Mind, thoughts and physical appearance same for all weekdays. There are so many things we want to do but we hardly do: - Wanted to hit GYM but hardly able to do. - Wanted to cook and eat something different but we end up eating outside at some restaurants. - Wanted to read books but we make ourselves so busy with watching soap operas on our television sets. - Do y...

WHY? I am having so many things which i want to write but i am unable to write & question arises why???????? There is so much we want to do in our lives but we are unable to do why????? Life Changes after marriage but why??? Time runs so fast but why???? Heart beat goes fast.......when you love somebody but why????? Kids are so innocent but why???? Unending why's.................i remember being kid we use to ask so many questions to our parents or our guests or our teachers who get irritated with our frequents why's???? Actual fact is that some people ask why to increase there general knowledge & correct their understanding about anything & everything, whereas few people ask why to divert the communications. I personally feel - asking why is not a bad idea specially if you don't have proper knowledge of the subject or the respective communication than why to hesitate. Open up & ask loudly why??? WHEN? It might be easy to answer wh...

Hey Friends writing this blog almost after 10months.......here i am back with bang........ I would be completing 6months of my married life................... So how is life after marriage??? that's what everybody see on our faces........... Changes after marriage: Boy becomes a Man & a Women becomes a Girl!!!!!!!!!!! Boy works hard to earn more & girl relaxes as much as she can. Boys favorite past time at home is cooking & girls favorite past time watching television. Boys become soft toys who have to smile at every occasion whereas girls become Army Colonel ruling the home. Boys need permission for spending single penny out of their purse whereas girls have full access to your purse............... Boys friends after marriage hardly any....& girls friends after marriage both her friends & her husband's friends............ Boys best holiday's after marriage....when her wife is not at home, Girls best holiday's when she is ...

I am in my 30th year of my life; was single couple on months ago. Recently got committed.......Taking you guys to flash back 2years back...........with a fear of marriage. When you mention marriage,  Guys hear sirens and see flashing lights Guys are born with a fundamental, genetically-transmitted mental condition known to psychologists as: The Fear That If You Get Attached to a Woman, Some Unattached Guy, Somewhere, will Be Having More Fun Than You. This is why all married guys assume that all unmarried guys lead lives of constant excitement involving hot tubs full of international fashion models; whereas in fact for most unmarried guys, the climax of the typical evening is watching an infomercial for Hair-in-a-Spray can while eating onion dip straight from the container.So, guys are extremely reluctant to make commitments, or even to take any steps that might lead to commitment. This is why, when a guy goes out on a date with ...

Sure there are plenty of other fish in the sea; but you're not anywhere near the sea. You're in the desert. Alone. I am not sure how many of you feel so, but when i come back home from my office, such kind of feelings really surrounds me. There are lot reasons behind those feelings. How many classmates do you remember from your 10th standard? How many classmates of 10th standard you are still in touch with? Lets us leave 10th standard because many of us thinks that 10th standard is quiet way back in the history. How many classmates do you remember from your Graduation? How many classmates of Graduation you are still in touch with? Still having difficulties in remembering their names & faces, let me make it more easy. How many classmates do you remember from your Post-Graduation? How many classmates of Post-Graduation you are still in touch with? Oh you still remember few of them, Great......so let me move little further........ How many colleag...

Its been longtime since i am writing this blog, there are reason when i write a blog..................Most of the time when i am happy & feel like smiling, i immediately jump on the blogger site to write my set of stories. A day before yesterday, i was so tired & was feeling very sad. Most of the time when i am sad, i try to go near by a market or a shopping mall that really delight me......I was just sitting at Subway restaurant with my Foot-long veggie delite thinking about - Why is it difficult to smile? When you feel that it is really difficult to smile everything seems to you very irritating, jokes looks like foolish, people looks like enemies, you want to be all alone, you don't get delighted with any big or good news........The same feelings are all around me, i am feeling difficult to smile, even there are lot of reasons to smile but yet my face is empty................. Napoleon Bonaparte said- "Everything is possible in his dictionary...

There had been lot of occasion in the past where i found difficult to apologize my friends for my mistakes, realizing the mistake is fine but saying the same to your friends is very difficult, because ego comes in-between. I lost couple of good friends for all such reasons. Recently i had a chat fight with one of my close friend & i gave a thought on our fight, i realized that i was wrong & during fight i blamed my friend with all nuisance. Blaming is never good for any relationship, if you are doing so..........you are breaking the trust of your friend & after this your friend will lose the confidence in you  &will try to avoid talking.  Good Relationships are like  adhesives, it increases the cohesiveness & bonding. It really require extra care to ensure that this bonding last long................................... Here i went through following questions after i realized my mistake: Why apologizing is so im...