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Evolution of human beings- childhood.....Adult......Old Age....

I still recall those childhood days when we were kids with no worries no tensions of the real lives......I wish i can go back to that period which is golden period of our lives.

Being a child we all dream about our future about being independent about being flying like a kite.......we feel dependent on teachers, parents for everything we do.......we dream for the day when we can do everything and anything of our own choices.......

Now we are adult we are in real lives, most of us married and few of us have even kids as well. The life is completely filled with responsibilities, we are completely independent but does that is what we were looking for.......perhaps not, we are in the situation where people are dependent on us.......Our parents, wife, kids.......we are independent but still dependent on our boundaries..........

Now slowly and steadily your focus would be to earn more to invest for your old age and for the future of your kids.............Focus is all around on how to complete all key achievements of buying a new home, savings for new car, savings for new investments.

Sometimes on your free times, you may still idle and think about your old childhood days...you may feel to go back to the school days........where you were free of all these responsibilities.......you were more focused on enjoying with friends....playing outdoors and indoors.....
Now all your friends are busy with their lives,, with their families........you may be socializing them on either Facebook, Twitter or Whatsapp........rather than socializing by visiting each other New generation........new choices................

Sooner or later we would be getting old........all we would left with again a complete dependency on our kids........who may or may not take care of us at that time.......You will feel again like a child where you don't have choices to opt for. All your eating habits and diets would be controlled by your Doctors.....Your kids would either be away from you and you would be completely alone thinking about them with passing of the time..........

I believe we as human being have changed the evolution of our lives.........we need to bring balance to our lives.........we need to bring childhood into our lives, we need to bring our friends back in to our lives....we need to bring love and care for our parents and grand parents into our lives.........
We need to bring back humanity back to our lives.........


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