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Why? When? How??????

WHY?

I am having so many things which i want to write but i am unable to write & question arises why????????

There is so much we want to do in our lives but we are unable to do why?????

Life Changes after marriage but why???

Time runs so fast but why????

Heart beat goes fast.......when you love somebody but why?????

Kids are so innocent but why????

Unending why's.................i remember being kid we use to ask so many questions to our parents or our guests or our teachers who get irritated with our frequents why's????

Actual fact is that some people ask why to increase there general knowledge & correct their understanding about anything & everything, whereas few people ask why to divert the communications. I personally feel - asking why is not a bad idea specially if you don't have proper knowledge of the subject or the respective communication than why to hesitate. Open up & ask loudly why???


WHEN?


It might be easy to answer why but its never so easy to answer when????

When i will grow bigger???

When i will get a job??

when i will fall in love????

When i will get married?

When i will have my own house???

When i will have peace of mind????

Often we're pressured to make decisions before we're ready, or we take too long because we feel we're not. Setting a time for important decision-making can solve both problems by providing time to think and a time when you have to decide. Important is HOW? & answers for WHEN will automatically come.




HOW?


You must had observed being a kid we had rarely thought of questions like how?

When our mind starts maturing questions start coming in our minds How?

How should i complete my homework?

How should we can win this match?

How should we can get a good job?

How should i work hard?

How should i earn more money to buy a house?

There are so many answers which rotate around our mind when we ask this question How????  try doing this wonderful exercise & practice it, you would find lot of difference. Your confidence level will increase to an heights. How is nothing but an brain storming exercise...... to know the answers by yourselves.



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