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Grow Old with Someone you Love..............

My hair had gone grey, my eyes had gone weak. I am nearing onto my 70's, my old habits of late rising from sleep had changed. Now me and my wife had turned early risers. We are back from our morning walk.

With a cup of tea, i am reading the newspaper headlines. Nothing much had changed politically in India all through these years. Priyanka Gandhi's son is on the verge to be the next prime minister of India, Kejriwal's son is still fighting against corruption. Lets put end to these newspaper stories here.

Nikki (My Wife) is busy with her early morning Yoga session, she had turned 68 years old but still managed to looks 15 yrs younger than her age. I am gazing her my double lenses, its almost 40years of our togetherness and still it seems that we had just got married yesterday.

Nikki raises her eyebrows from the corner and asks me whats in the breakfast honey? I distract myself and pretend that i had not heard her words. She speaks more louder with adding - "You promised me before marriage that you will cook on weekends and holidays, now you are full time on holiday cook something fresh and healthy for me."

Technology had changed now with just a click of the touch you can select for the menu & recipe. With another touch robotic technology will cook the food opted by you....I wish old days were better where you cook your food by your own as it reflected the love & passion of cooking for your loved ones.

My first love for country music is still alive & i love listening that in the background, Nikki hates my music numbers thats why she prefers listening to her dance numbers with her ear phones. We both are very different from each other, our likes, dislikes are pretty different but it doesn't stop us living together, we both miss each other a lot when we are not together. I occasionally gift  her with white roses (her favorite), whenever she gets annoyed or angry on me. I am pretty smart here to defend myself at any likely situations.

We still keep fighting on little little things, we still cry & laugh as we used to do in past. I still don't like to watch TV & seeing soap operas with her, i still had to watch her live drama's & bear with it. She too don't like my PJ (pakao Jokes) but still had to bear that because i can't control. We love each other so much that we are use to it now........

If you have somebody to love you,
if you have somebody to care you,
What else you may need more from this Life!
Life is short enough but still big to live with Grudges.
Just learn to give & forgive, give & forgive.
You will found True love of your life...
Happiness & sorrow are part of the life,
Living & loving each other during those moments
is what a True love of your life.

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Indu said…
so true none.....lv u.....
December 21, 2012 at 3:04 PM
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