Colors of my life

Love & Infatuation are two different things, how many times did you felt that you are in love but actually its not love & is thought of your mind. 90% cases are such where we feel like love but in reality its not love but infatuation.  Before i move forward describing each of the words - Love & Infatuation, let us understand the meaning of each of these words: Love  is described as: a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend. sexual passion or desire. a person toward whom love is felt; beloved person; sweetheart. infatuation  is described as a foolish and usually extravagant passion or love or admiration temporary love of an adolescent an object of extravagant short-lived passion Symptoms of love vs infatuation The foremost symptom of being infatuated by a person is wanting to be around that person. This may sometimes also be sexual des

I am in my 30th year of my life; was single couple on months ago. Recently got committed.......Taking you guys to flash back 2years back...........with a fear of marriage. When you mention marriage,  Guys hear sirens and see flashing lights Guys are born with a fundamental, genetically-transmitted mental condition known to psychologists as: The Fear That If You Get Attached to a Woman, Some Unattached Guy, Somewhere, will Be Having More Fun Than You. This is why all married guys assume that all unmarried guys lead lives of constant excitement involving hot tubs full of international fashion models; whereas in fact for most unmarried guys, the climax of the typical evening is watching an infomercial for Hair-in-a-Spray can while eating onion dip straight from the container.So, guys are extremely reluctant to make commitments, or even to take any steps that might lead to commitment. This is why, when a guy goes out on a date with a woman and finds himself really liking her, he o

I was recovering from my viral fever & all hats of to my mom whose efforts had made me recovered so quickly. My platelet counts had gone below the standard mark & I had to take off from my office for almost 2 weeks. I informed my father about illness & requested if they can come for a while to take care of me. Since my mother is a heart patient so we generally avoid giving her shock or any such news which disturbs her. My father told her that we are going to Gurgaon for a while to meet Tinku & will stay for atleast 2-3days. (Tinku is my pet name, so don’t make a joke of it ok.) My mother was over surprised because my father hardly gets space/ time from his job. He loves his job more than my mother, so it was hard for my mother to swallow it so quickly. She had the only thought in her mind was of marriage proposal, she had been dreaming for my marriage for more than a year. Reality was hard for her to see as she got to know about my illness only when she arrived at m

 I remember Year1999 when i created my first email ID & when i today remember the same story i can't even imagine life without internet. It was a Sunday, we were just through with our intermediate exams. We got to know that internet cafe had come around near Govt. college. Myself & Puneet we thought of going to this cafe. Although Charges were Rs120/ hrs, we managed to spend fifty-fifty from our pocket moneys. We started with creating email ID in rediff, it took us almost 30-45mins as we were filling the registration form for the first time. At last we were able to create our first email Id's.  In today's era, most of the kids who have started going to school now have their facebook & twitter accounts. Dont know how far this will gooooooo, but as of this don't have any end. Its a small story of how the internet services had grown drastically in India since last one decade. There had been full transformation in this field. Before i start my story l

Dear Readers, I am back after long illness which had made me weak, tiring & lazy....Although i was lazy before illness as well, but seems i had gone more lazy these days...............Anyways i was trying to put this story in to my blog for a while but was not able to get this into the words.......At last i am posting this today......this story is a funnier one & i am sure it will bring a ting of smile on your face & widen your cheeks........Hehhehehehehe It was a summer of Year 1997, i was through with my 10th standard board examinations & there was a gap of few days before i join the coaching classes for 11th standard. On the other side my sister was through with her 12th standard exams. Since she had done her 10+2 from a college in Punjab, where at that time Punjabi was a mandatory subject to pass through the exams & sis was very poor with the subject........I hope my sis don't read my blogs else she is going to kill me............ Twist in the story

Sure there are plenty of other fish in the sea; but you're not anywhere near the sea. You're in the desert. Alone. I am not sure how many of you feel so, but when i come back home from my office, such kind of feelings really surrounds me. There are lot reasons behind those feelings. How many classmates do you remember from your 10th standard? How many classmates of 10th standard you are still in touch with? Lets us leave 10th standard because many of us thinks that 10th standard is quiet way back in the history. How many classmates do you remember from your Graduation? How many classmates of Graduation you are still in touch with? Still having difficulties in remembering their names & faces, let me make it more easy. How many classmates do you remember from your Post-Graduation? How many classmates of Post-Graduation you are still in touch with? Oh you still remember few of them, Great......so let me move little further........ How many colleag

Its been longtime since i am writing this blog, there are reason when i write a blog..................Most of the time when i am happy & feel like smiling, i immediately jump on the blogger site to write my set of stories. A day before yesterday, i was so tired & was feeling very sad. Most of the time when i am sad, i try to go near by a market or a shopping mall that really delight me......I was just sitting at Subway restaurant with my Foot-long veggie delite thinking about - Why is it difficult to smile? When you feel that it is really difficult to smile everything seems to you very irritating, jokes looks like foolish, people looks like enemies, you want to be all alone, you don't get delighted with any big or good news........The same feelings are all around me, i am feeling difficult to smile, even there are lot of reasons to smile but yet my face is empty................. Napoleon Bonaparte said- "Everything is possible in his dictionary&q